Joachim Andersen

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The Bystander Effect: Why Responsibility Shrinks in a Crowd

A crowd seen from behind stands in a half circle on a wet cobbled Italian piazza at night, all watching an old car burn in front of them, a few holding up phones to film while nobody steps in
Everyone is watching, a few are filming, and each of us waits for someone else to act.


The Bystander Effect describes how the presence of other people can make each of us less likely to step in when someone needs help. When I’m the only one who sees a problem, it’s clearly mine to deal with. When many people see it, each of us can quietly assume that someone else will act, or take the calm of the others as a sign that nothing is wrong.

The essence of The Bystander Effect is to ask: “If I assume someone else will handle this, what happens if everyone assumes the same?”


Origin: From a Newspaper Story to the Laboratory

In March 1964, The New York Times reported that 38 neighbors in Queens had watched or heard the murder of Kitty Genovese without calling the police. It was blamed on the apathy of city life. In 2007, the psychologists Rachel Manning, Mark Levine and Alan Collins went through the archive material and found no evidence that there were 38 witnesses, that they saw the murder, or that they all stayed passive.

The story did, however, prompt two young psychologists, John Darley and Bibb Latané, to test whether it was the number of witnesses, rather than their character, that mattered. In their 1968 experiment, students talking over an intercom heard another participant seem to have a seizure. 85% of those who believed they were the only listener went for help before the fit ended, but only 31% of those who believed four others could hear it too.

In a second study, smoke began to pour through a wall vent while students filled in a questionnaire. 75% of those who were alone reported it, but only 1 of 10 did so when sitting with two strangers who had been told to ignore it. In 1970, Latané and Darley summed up their work in The Unresponsive Bystander: Why Doesn’t He Help?.


Key Concepts

  • Diffusion of Responsibility
    When more people could help, each of us feels a smaller share of the responsibility, and it’s easy to assume that someone else has already acted.

  • Pluralistic Ignorance
    When a situation is unclear, I look at others to judge how serious it is. If everyone does the same while trying to look calm, we all conclude that nothing is wrong. It’s a close cousin of social proof, which I cover in What is the Psychology of Persuasion.

  • Fear of Looking Foolish
    Stepping in risks embarrassment if it turns out to be nothing, and that risk feels bigger in front of an audience, even though, as The Spotlight Effect shows, others pay less attention to me than I think.

  • Five Steps to Helping
    Latané and Darley argued that a bystander must notice the event, interpret it as an emergency, take responsibility, know how to help and decide to act. Other people can block any of these steps.

  • Danger Changes the Picture
    In 2011, Peter Fischer and colleagues pooled about 50 years of studies with over 7,700 participants. The effect held overall, but was weaker when the danger was obvious, a perpetrator was present or helping took physical effort, since clear emergencies are recognized faster.


Some Examples

  • A Lady in Distress
    In 1969, Bibb Latané and Judith Rodin had male Columbia students fill in a questionnaire while a female market researcher worked behind a curtain next door. They then heard a crash as her chair collapsed, and her cries that she couldn’t move her foot. 70% of students who were alone offered to help, but with a stranger in the room, someone helped in only 40% of the pairs, and next to a passive stranger, only 7% helped.

  • Five-Year-Olds and the Spilled Water
    In 2015, Maria Plötner and colleagues at the Max Planck Institute in Leipzig had an experimenter knock over a cup of colored water while 60 five-year-olds were coloring. 19 of 20 children who were alone fetched her paper towels, but only 11 of 20 when two other children were in the room. When the two were fenced in behind a barrier and unable to help, 19 of 20 helped again, suggesting that what held the children back was not shyness, but a sense that the job wasn’t theirs.

  • A Question in a Chat Room
    In 2000, Patrick Markey asked how to look at someone’s profile in 400 Yahoo! chat groups of 2 to 19 people. The more people present, the longer it took to get an answer. But when the question named one participant, group size no longer mattered, and help came faster, after 36 seconds on average instead of 52.

  • The Jogger in a Football Shirt
    In 2005, Mark Levine and colleagues led Manchester United fans at Lancaster University past a jogger who slipped, fell and held his ankle in pain. 12 of 13 fans helped when he wore a Manchester United shirt, but only 4 of 12 when his shirt was plain, and 3 of 10 when it was a Liverpool shirt. When a second study reminded the fans that they were all football fans, they also helped the rival fan.


Applying The Bystander Effect

When I want to use this mental model, this is the simple process I follow:

  1. Assume It Might Be Real
    When something looks wrong, I don’t let the calm of others convince me that it’s fine. Checking costs me a moment of awkwardness, while ignoring a real emergency can cost far more.

  2. Be the First to Move
    Since everyone is waiting for someone else, I try to be that someone. Once one person acts, others usually follow.

  3. Point at One Person
    When I need help, I ask a specific person: “You in the grey coat, please call an ambulance”. A clear request removes the doubt about whose job it is.

  4. Know What to Do
    A first aid course and knowing the emergency number, 113 for medical emergencies in Norway, make it much easier to act when it counts.

  5. Give Every Task an Owner
    An email to ten people or a problem raised in a big meeting often belongs to no one. I give each task one named owner and a deadline, and I reply when I’m asked, even if others are copied.

  6. Widen the Circle of “Us”
    People help those they see as one of their own, so I remind myself that the person in trouble is a neighbor, a colleague or simply a fellow human being.


Pitfalls and Limitations

  • The founding story is shakier than the science. The 38 silent witnesses of 1964 are largely a myth, so I rely on the experiments rather than the anecdote.

  • Crowds still help. In 2020, Richard Philpot and colleagues analyzed 219 real public conflicts caught on surveillance cameras in Lancaster, Amsterdam and Cape Town. In 9 out of 10, at least one bystander stepped in, and the more bystanders there were, the more likely it was that someone helped. A crowd lowers the chance that any one person acts, not necessarily the chance that the victim gets help.

  • It isn’t apathy. Darley and Latané noted that many of the students who didn’t report the seizure had trembling hands and sweaty palms, and seemed more upset than those who did. Blaming the character of bystanders is a classic case of The Fundamental Attribution Error.


Related Mental Models

The Bystander Effect reminds me that a crowd can turn a clear duty into everyone’s and no one’s problem. By treating “someone should do something” as a sign that the someone might be me, and by asking named people for help, I can turn a group of onlookers into a group of helpers.



To learn more about mental models and philosophy,
check out: Wise: How to Attain a Deep Understanding of the World, History, Our Place in It, and How to Live Well



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